Step one: Plug your ipod headphones into your laptop computer.
PROBLEM SOLVED!
I’ve recently discovered this simple solution to all of my socializing problems, and by recently, I mean just now. I’m sitting at my local coffee shop (or LCS) using the internets and just happily minding my own business when in walks a prominent figure from my tormented past. This woman was front and center in making my younger years absolutely unbearable. I’ll go ahead and say it. Her name is Mrs. Franseen. As in, I’m younger than her so I’m not allowed to know or use her first name.
Let me start at the beginning. I went to a private school for most of my academic career. We started out at one and then moved to EHCS at the beginning of my 3rd grade year. This school was/is a cult. I may have discussed them on here before, I’m not sure. Mr. Franseen was the school principal and since my sister and I did not attend their church as well as their school, we were outcasts and therefore I became somewhat familiar with his office. When it was time for me to be punished, he would call in his wife to deliver the spankings. Somehow it was inappropriate for him to punish me in that fashion. Probably because he would have enjoyed it. Sick bastard. Needless to say, I was traumatized by this school and the family that ran it and I have yet to get over it. It’s not looking likely to happen either.
I’m not sure that this woman would recognize me as easily as I recognized her when she walked in but I’m not willing to risk it. For all I know, every female student that did not attend their church was administered the same swats that I received at her hand and my face doesn’t stick out to her. I’m OK with that. I’m currently hiding with my headphones on in the hopes that I look very into whatever I’m listening to and should not be disturbed. I’ll do whatever I can to avoid a conversation with this woman. If approached, I might have to cause a scene. If I wasn’t already committed to finishing this download on itunes for the boy, I would have bolted out the back door as soon as she walked in.
SIGH.
They all said it couldn’t be done. Oh ye of little faith.
I’ve been cooking each evening and introducing new things into the diets of the boy and myself. My latest conquest? Tilapia!! I’ve never prepared fish before. In fact, we never eat fish. Enter a new era for the Hetfield Manor Household. The boy even went back for seconds!!
I am woman, hear me roar!
36:45 minutes on the treadmill, 2.39 miles, running, sweating, side cramps = 1 sausage, egg and cheese mcgriddle. Delicious, but TOTALLY not worth it. (Calories 550, Fat 33, Sat Fat 11, Sodium 1290mg, Cholesterol 260mg, Carbs 43)
It’s two days later and I am still recovering from working off one of the two mcgriddles I had on Tuesday morning. Yesterday, I couldn’t move. I came up to the coffee shop briefly but other than that, I was laying on the couch or in my bed the rest of the day. Correction, I got up to fix dinner and take to boy up to the high school to look into sports programs for the upcoming year. I complained about the pain in my legs the entire time. The boy is sick of hearing about it but I’m suffering!!
While we were up at the school, I was struck by nostalgia. This is my alma matter and my boy is going to be attending there next year. We went to the theater and sat down for a brief presentation on the schools sports programs overall and then were sent off to various areas of the school to find out more about the specific sport we were interested in which for us was soccer. While we were there, I pointed out to him that I had been in a musical on that very stage. I also pointed out a few coaches that were still there from my days and a few other things that had changed or remained the same. He mostly sighed at me and rolled his eyes. I also warned him about how seniors used to try to tell the freshman how to gain access to the 3rd floor swimming pool and not to fall for that one, if they still try to pull it. There is no 3rd floor.
It’s difficult to believe that he’s old enough to be in high school already and over the last 12 hours I have been alternately fantasizing about knitting things in the blue-on-blue for sporting events (hats, gloves, scarves) and pondering how the next 4 years are going to go. The high school years can be extremely difficult for some teenagers to get through and I want him to be a success which makes me wonder what I can do to help him in that. For the majority of his academic career, I have been married to whatever job I was holding and have not had the time or energy to put into extra curricular activities such as sports, PTA and that kind of crap. Now, I’m wondering what kind of job I can find that will allow me the time to be more supportive and authoritative when necessary so that he can get the most out of these next 4 years. I don’t seem to be able to balance both career and home as well as some mothers. It is only lately that this has become more apparent as I have had the time to consider dinner options and prepare said meals and make sure we attend the school events. I’m sorry to say that he could most likely have been more involved in things with his middle school had I had the time/energy. Regardless, I am determined to do better by him until he graduates high school. How do I do this? Part-time work would be ideal, but it won’t pay enough to sustain us. Extra curricular activities cost. Something to keep working on in my head until I find the solution that suits the both of us for sure! I have come to the conclusion that a week at home then a week at his dad’s and the back and forth no longer appears to be the best arrangement. I must come to a new agreement with his father. Sigh. Time for the quarterly parental dinner meeting.
I’ve been branching out in my knitting lately and finally attacked the ever feared sweater. The pattern I chose was very simple but included intarsia and following a graph pattern. This is something that is, much like the socks, intimidating until you try it.
Now the truth of it is, I didn’t do it right. I am wearing said sweater today because I was so excited last night when I finished it that I decided I had to wear it out today. To anyone that knits, this will be moderately interesting, to the rest of you, give up now.
The sweater is too small. This is because of a couple of different things. 1. I had to adjust the pattern slightly to fit with the much cheaper yarn that I bought. I can’t afford the yarn the pattern calls for and there isn’t really a bargain substitute so I bought something as close to as I could find. 2. I kept holding it up to myself in progress and saying, “this is really long!” to whoever was nearby. Turns out, I should have just followed the pattern there.
In further review of the definition of intarsia (see this link), I strung my yarn along behind my work and in true intarsia, you don’t do that. This caused my picture on my sleeves to bunch up a bit.
Overall, I completed my very first sweater and there is a picture on each sleeve. So what if it’s not right and doesn’t fit!! I’ve figured out that I can just pop the seams and add a few stitches here and there to make it fit. I also think I can snip the yarn strung along the back and fix that too. We’ll see if it works!! I am not yet discouraged. I have another short sleeved summer sweater pattern that I hope to tackle next. It calls for smaller needles than I have and it’ll be a few days before I can aquire them, maybe longer. I might have to order them online. My local yarn stores seem to be slowly letting their needle supply wane. I hate them. I digress.
By the way, I’m smoke free x4 weeks as of today!! HOORAY!!